Tucson By Choice!: What Me Worry? I'm Going To Have A Great Day! Let's Do That Together in the Rain.

What Me Worry? I'm Going To Have A Great Day! Let's Do That Together in the Rain.

  • Smily face by michaelmysticThe DOW futures are down the limit before the open--more than six percent.
  • General Motors is saying that bankruptcy is not an option for that venerable company.  Right!
  • The Wall Street Journal is predicting a bloodbath in the markets.

I won't let it matter in the course of my day!  Okay, call me a Pollyanna, but I'm telling you that the most important thing in my life this morning is my mindset!

  • We choose to act or react. 
    Choose to act today.
  • We choose to be optimistic or pessimistic. 
    Choose to be optimistic.
  • We choose the things we think about. 
    Focus your mind on things you can DO today.
  • We choose those with whom we will interact today. 
    Seek out people who share your optimism.

Share your optimistic choices of action with your clients and customers.  They're tired of talking to people who moan and groan.  Your choices will make you attractive to your customers.

I'll be careful to monitor what comes out of my mouth today.  You do the same.  Words are previews of things to come.

I'm Mike in Tucson, your preferred Tucson, Arizona mortgage lender.
Mike Jones (Tucson Mortgage Company, LLC): Loan Officer in Tucson, Pima County, Arizona
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36 commentsMike Jones • October 24 2008 07:58AM

Comments

Well.  I should be driving to the bank and post office.  However, I'm glued to CNBC. 

I'm positive and optimistic, but only because it's in my genes.

 

Posted by Lenn Harley, Real Estate Broker, Virginia & Maryland (Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate) over 3 years ago

 A bad attitude never changed anything for the better, anyway!  If we have control to change something, then we need to do so, otherwise, why waste time worrying about things we cannot control?  We just make ourselves and those around us unhappy, which gets us nowhere.  A positive attitude is, indeed, infectious.  Thanks for the great reminder.

Posted by Susan Haughton ALEXANDRIA VA REAL ESTATE REALTOR, ABR (LONG & FOSTER REALTORS) over 3 years ago

Mike - i don't worry about the stock market anymore. i'm a tech guy from way back. That means i lost all of my money in 2001 in the big bubble.

Posted by Larry Brewer Nashville Real Estate (Benchmark Realty LLc) over 3 years ago

Mike - I tend to take "the glass is half full" approach to life.  I was a member of our local Optimist Club for years and enjoyed the forward thinking of those I associated with.  I agree with the obove comment "nothing good ever comes from a negative attitude" (paraphrased a bit).

Posted by Jon Wnoroski, Summit County Realtor (America's 1st Choice RH Realty Co., Inc.) over 3 years ago

It is hard to be positive, but we need to be. I know in my heart things will get better and thery always do but my mind is a defferent story.

Posted by Joyce Kelley, Buyers Agent 800-309-3414 Pace and Gulf Breeze Homes Sale or Rent (Charles Stallions Real Estate Services Inc) over 3 years ago

Thanks for your uplifting words. I too am an optimist, but also a realist. Sometimes it is difficult to be both, but there is always the sun and the mountains. There is always something to be grateful for. Have a grateful day.

Debbie

Posted by Deborah Schultz (Dunajs Properties LLC) over 3 years ago

It can be difficult even as an optimist to not get into a rut of "what the heck?"  But you are so right and surrounding yourself with positive people and making the choice to be positive can influence not only your day but others around you as well!

Posted by Valerie Spaulding~Allyn~Belfair~Hood Canal & Puget Sound~WA~Real Estate~ (Windermere Peninsula Properties~Allyn~Belfair~WA) over 3 years ago

Mike,

That glass looks half full to me!!! Thanks,   Fran

Posted by Fran 'The Title Man' Gaspari Title Insurance-PA & NJ (Patriot Land Transfer, Inc.) over 3 years ago

Fran,

You called it just right!

Valerie,

See?  Look at you.  You're smiling!

Deborah,

Grateful is a wonderful word for the day!

Joyce,

Your mind tells your heart what to feel.  Thanks for commenting.

Jon,

Love your paraphrase!

Larry,

I hear you!

Susan,

Infectious is a good word.  That's why I'm surrounding myself with can-do people today.

Lenn,

You've got good genes!  Thanks for being the first to comment.

Mike in Tucson

Posted by Mike Jones (SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC) over 3 years ago

Mike - I tend to be optomistic most of the time too.  I hope it doesn't account for my not parking my 401K money in cash, instead of the mutual funds I have continued to hunker down with :-)

 

Posted by Myrl Jeffcoat (Real Living Great West Real Estate) over 3 years ago

Mike - I am a firm believer in being positive. And you have to focus on the positive - in fact I heard some very positive numbers this morning on the stock channel regarding the housing market.

Posted by Sharon Paxson Newport Beach Real Estate (Prudential California Realty, DRE License 01501912) over 3 years ago

Mike - we are going to sell a million dollar house :) - how's that for positivity LOL. (actually just submitted the offer, keeping fingers crossed) ~Rita

Posted by Kenna Real Estate over 3 years ago

Mike,

Magnificent advice and a good reminder for us all to stay optimistic and be spreaders of happy feelings, not doom and gloom. I know it's tough, with the way things are going in the world today, however, it's still a beautiful world.

((-:

Jo

Posted by Jo-Anne Smith- Oakville, Burlington and Mississauga Region Real Estate, Ont (Your Choice Realty ) over 3 years ago

This just showed up in my google alert now... very timely... I just had a purchase die because my buyer got a message from a higher source that said not to buy now...

Posted by Paul Dunn - Arizona's #1 USDA Loan Originator and FHA Loan Specialist (Sunstreet Mortgage, LLC) over 3 years ago

Mike, like Alfred E. Newman says...What, me worry? It is all about attitude and that's the only thing we have any control over so my choice is to just smile and get back to work! Or play if the opportunity presents itself!

Posted by Russell Lewis, Broker,CLHMS,GRI (Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate) over 3 years ago

No reason to worry............just keep plugging away. Stay postive and we will have a better day and a brighter future. My life is not dictated by the spin media or stocks.

Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor-RealtorĀ® Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) over 3 years ago

I wish they would teach Positive Attitude in high school!!! 

Some years back I saw a speaker with Winning Minds.  His name was Matt De La Cruz.  He actually opened for Tom Hopkins but Matt was phenomenal as a speaker of attitude.  I remember sitting there thinking, every high school kid needs to hear this.

I am an eternal optimist-my husband is a pessimist.  What a match . . .lol

Posted by Tami Vroma-Realtor Grand Rapids MI Real Estate (West Michigan Real Estate Specialist-Five Star Real Estate) over 3 years ago

Mike, sometimes when I look around me at what is going on...what sustains me is my Christianity.  It's not a banner or anything,,,but I look around at the craziness and say to myself, "I'm leaving here some day." and it sure puts things in perspective.  Great Post!

Posted by Judi Barrett~Integrity Real Estate Services~Idabel, Oklahoma over 3 years ago

Mike,

I have to keep a constant watch on my mouth and my thoughts.  With all that is going on right now shouldnt we all?

Posted by Don Rogers REALTORĀ®, CDPE, GRI O'Fallon MO & St Charles County MO homes (RE/MAX Gold) over 3 years ago

Reminds me of a song from my childhood...

"It'll come back"

 

Posted by Tom Burris | Texas Mortgage Dallas Mortgage FHA (DallasLoanGuy.com (214) 763-4629 cell/text/nights/weekends) over 3 years ago

Two people were faced with the same task:  take a large mound of assorted junk, rocks, tree trimmings and other assorted detritus and a large hole.  Do something with all.

One of them started out by complaining what a meaningless task it was, venting about how beneath his capabilities it was and that any trained monkey could fill the hole with the refuse.

The other person took a little while to study the pile in front of him and began to sort through it.

By the end of the day, the first person had taken his pile and put it all in the hole, leaving about 3 feet or so to completely fill it in.  He continued to gripe and moan about his wasted day.

The second person had worked steadily all day long, seeming to enjoy himself as he constructed a crude but effective bridge across the hole...complete with handrails, a cover to block the sun and decorated with odds & ends of different things arranged in pleasing combinations.

Taking a moment to savor one last glance at the day's work, he turned to his companion in toil and said, "why don't we go have a beer to celebrate?"

"Are you crazy?  Celebrate what?" stormed the first man.

"Lets celebrate the fact that there weren't 3 piles and 3 holes--I'll buy the first round!"

It isn't the task that makes the person...it is the approach & the attitude that makes the difference!

Posted by Kent Simpson "TucsonKent" Tucson Homes Land & Investment (Tierra Antigua Realty - Downtown) over 3 years ago

Hey Mike!  

Whatever it is that we focus on in life... this will be our reality.  

I agree with you! Instead of being fearful or afraid of what's happening in Washington or on Wall St., we should all try to focus on what we can control HERE and NOW in our own lives.

Have a great weekend!

Kurtcares of Tucson

Posted by Kurt Duffeck (Keller Williams Realty) over 3 years ago

Leave it to you to inject a bit of the positive...thanks...it helps!

Posted by Joan Mirantz GRI CBR SRES- Concord New Hampshire Realtor (Homequest Real Estate) over 3 years ago

Joan,

Some of it comes from reading your blog; you're an encouragement!

Kurt,

I like your attitude!

Kent,

One of my favorite ways of communicating is through story-telling, and this story of yours is right to the point.  Let's celebrate!

Tom,

Come on back and give us the words to that song!

Don,

That's good advice for all of us.

Judi,

There's a verse in the NT book of Romans that underscores your comment.  It talks about all things working together for good for God's purposes.  That's where I want to be at the start of each day.  Thanks for commenting.

Tami,

We ought to teach more practical stuff to our kids in high school.  It sounds like you and your husband are a good match!

Missy,

I like your last line especially!  My life is not dictated by the spin media or stocks.  Thanks for commenting.

Russell,

We're showing our age.  Alfred E. Newman!

Paul,

Sorry about your deal going south.  Hang in there; I appreciate the work that you put into your blogs, and I know you'll do well in spite of bumps in the road!

Jo-Anne,

It's good to see you here; thanks for your comment!  It is a beautiful world.

Rita,

I want to hear "the rest of the story!"

Sharon,

It does take focus.  That's a choice.  Thanks for stopping by.

Myrl,

Never, never, never, never give up!  Wasn't that Churchill?

Mike in Tucson

Posted by Mike Jones (SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC) over 3 years ago

I'm always positive but have to admit that I'm wondering if I am TOOOOO positive. Working on new avenues and not caring if I have to move into an RV to follow my passions!

Posted by Susie Blackmon~Ocala~Horses~Western Wear~Horse Farms~Marketing. over 3 years ago

Susie,

Is there any such thing as being too positive?  I don't think so.  It's good to see you; thanks for commenting!

Mike in Tucson

Posted by Mike Jones (SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC) over 3 years ago

Mike - it's always a choice how we view things. I choose to look at the good!

Posted by Linda Scanlan (A Consumer's View) over 3 years ago

I really like Kent's story!!!

That describes what I think of as an ideal working style ... Instead of trying to "visualize" bad stuff away ... try to understand the what and the how and the why of the bad stuff so it can be turned into opportunity and advantage....

Posted by Cheryl Johnson, Bob Taylor Properties, Inc., Los Angeles, CA over 3 years ago

CJ,

Me too!  The loans I'm closing are for short sale purchases right now.  It's not what we would have wished for, but it's opportunity on every side.  The buyers are happy to afford the home, and the sellers are glad to get out from under.

Linda,

I know you do!  Thanks for coming back to Active Rain, and especially for commenting here.  It's good to see you.

Mike in Tucson

Posted by Mike Jones (SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC) over 3 years ago

I've always made the best decisions with the best information available at the time that I needed to make a decision. In hind sight, some of those decisions weren't the best, but they were at the time with the information available.

Posted by Jim Frimmer, Realtor and CDPE, Mission Valley, CA DRE #01458572 (Century 21 Award) over 3 years ago

Hey Mike in Tucson.  I am normally a pretty upbeat person.  Today, however, I have been in the dumps.  Then, you stopped by my blog and told me that I was your favorite blogger today!  And that has made all the difference in my world.  Thanks!  You're my favorite blogger today, too!

Posted by Janna Rankin Scharf (Keller Williams Realty Coeur d'Alene) over 3 years ago

Janna,

See?  That's the power of the Rain!  Someone said to me that "all that blogging is just a waste of time.  You don't develop real relationships."  "No?"  I replied.  "So I guess the commissions generated by people I never would have met otherwise aren't real either?  Active Rain has generated nearly $20,000 for me this year so far, and given me tremendous credibility with new clients and referral resources." 

Don't get down in the dumps.  Tomorrow is another day, and you're going to be on top of the world!

Mike in Tucson

Posted by Mike Jones (SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC) over 3 years ago

Great tips for a Monday Morning, too, Mike! I so love to see the light you shine here!

Posted by Karen Pierce Cooper| Housing Counselor |Oregon over 3 years ago

Karen,

Thanks for the encouragement!  I sure appreciate you.

Mike in Tucson

Posted by Mike Jones (SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC) over 3 years ago

Hi Mike,

Thanks for the optimistic words during these trying times- the good vibes can be contagious! I appreciate it!

Posted by The Hope Mortgage Team @ Gateway Funding over 3 years ago

Hi Mike,

Words of wisdom and optimism can always brighten our day.  Thanks for yours.  We are all blessed to be here and no economic condition can keep us down.

Posted by Charles Gardner-Realtor/Investor (ZIP Realty, Inc-Houston District) over 3 years ago

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